I have a secret: a deep, dark unspoken truth that I rarely share. Today people, I tell you what’s been on my heart for over a year:
I’m kind of over church.
Well, now that it’s out there… who’s hungry for some lunch?
Since coming back to an official church about five years ago, I realized I am exhausted from dealing with the “people of God.” I don’t know, I guess I just expected Christians to be… great. As it turns out, they’re just like everyone else (sometimes worse).
Church people can be exclusive.
Church people can be insanely selfish.
Church people can be crazy judgemental and hateful.
Church people can be destructive.
Church people can have an attitude that they are better than everyone else.
Over the past few years, I could tell you more than a handful of deeply painful stories that have shattered the rose-colored glasses in which I used to view church.
Last year, at the start of my major church funk I took up a crazy idea that I called the How Can I Help Project.
I dedicated an entire month to serving someone every single day and it was incredible. It slowly and incredibly reinvigorated my love for Jesus, for unfiltered kindness, for changing lives. In my darkest moments of church struggle, I constantly turn to this verse from James 1:27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. -James 1:27 (NIV)
So I’ve been on a church detox.
Yet, through it all, I’m clinging to the true word of God and the actions of Jesus. In preparation for my music ministry to Zimbabwe three years ago, God led me to this passage and it has been burned in my mind ever since. Check it:
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ -Matthew 25:34-40.
Seems Jesus and Paul were on the same page.
What if it’s not a building or an attendance record that is at the core of God’s heart? What if it’s how we love?
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Wherever you are in your faith journey, the bible is clear: we are to help the sick, the poor, the homeless, the prisoners, the widows. So let’s all do that like all the time.
But what do you actually… do? Here are 50 ideas to get you started!
1.) Donate food to a food pantry.
2.) Volunteer at Feed My Starving Children (or find an organization like it near you).
3.) Create Homeless Care Packages and hand them out.
4.) Do some Random Acts of Kindness wherever you go. [Read about my 26 Random Acts of Kindness for my 26th Birthday!]
5.) Serve in the Kids Ministry or Youth Group at church.
6.) Volunteer at a Nursing Home.
7.) Adopt or Become a Foster Parent.
9.) Keep $5 McDonald’s gift cards in your car for the homeless.
10.) Sign up for a Mission Trip (locally or overseas).
11.) Offer to babysit for free (triple bonus points if it’s a single mom).
12.) Post on Facebook “How can I help you?” and then follow through with what people post [Check out my “How Can I Help You” Project for inspiration.]
13.) Serve in a prison ministry.
14.) Donate blood.
15.) Mow an elderly neighbors lawn (or shovel their driveway for those of us in the tundra).
16.) Befriend someone with special needs.
17.) Volunteer or donate with Save the Storks.
18.) Tutor a kid in need (for free).
19.) Offer to drive someone to church (call and ask in the office if they know of anyone who could use a ride).
20.) Host a garage sale or bake sale and give the proceeds to a someone less fortunate.
21.) Join the Bone Marrow Registry.
22.) Serve at Meals on Wheels and get to know the shut ins.
23.) Play music at a nursing home.
24.) Take someone out for coffee and truly listen to their story.
25.) Leave a thank you note and/or present for the people we often take for granted (policemen, fireman, paramedics, nurses, the mailman, teachers, pastors).
26.) Ask at a nursing home if there’s anyone who needs visitors.
27.) Drop off toys and activities at your local children’s hospital (many have a list of needs on their website).
28.) Go through your closet and giveaway old clothes and shoes to someone in need.
29.) Host a bingo night at a long-term care facility or nursing home.
30.) Sell a luxury item and donate the money to someone in need.
31.) Sponsor a child through Compassion International
32.) Volunteer to read to kids at a local school.
33.) Search Craigslist for someone in need and help them out (don’t go alone.)
34.) Let someone stay in a spare room for cheap or free.
35.) Sign up to mentor an ex-prisoner.
36.) Downgrade your cell phone or cable plan and donate the monthly savings. [Learn about Why I Said Goodbye to My Smart Phone here]
37.) Sign up to coach a youth sport and tell the kids they are smart, kind, and important.
38.) Sign up to sort medical supplies going overseas to a place like MATTER.
39.) Encourage a young person you know to audition for CTI Music Ministries or host a concert of one of their ministry teams at your church.
40.) Put a cooler of water and Gatorade in your car on a hot day and hand them out to homeless people you see.
41.) Donate to a program like Meals for Minds or the Sheridan pr